I don't have bunch of things about this topic I'm going to say it in here today, I don't have anything prepared like the definition of "ATTITUDE", or a really long grandmother story to express what attitude is about.
2 weeks back, my sir handed us a big piece of paper, & a board about Attitude. He asked us to express what attitude to us is about, turn by turn whenever we went for law lessons.
"ATTITUDE."
To me, attitude is one important aspect of life. It's a powerful thinking that could led people to success! Having a positive attitude is something that is REALLY difficult to maintain, especially in this fucked up world when everything tends to flip your world whenever it's turning to be great. That's when your own thinking comes in. Either you let this fucked up world consume you, or you overcome it with your attitude.
Positive attitude is really influential, it's a powerful tool that drives people's motivation, & those around you, everyday without you even realizing it.
This "Positive Attitude" is something I've yet to keep it stable, but I'm trying hard to maintain it, especially someone like me. I'm like a natural downer, I always, always always ALWAYS think negatively about everything, it's really a turn off lol. Even I admitted it's a bloody turn off. I'm always paranoid about lots of stuff that I'm really sick & tired of it. Having this paranoid-ness & negativity is probably one of the major reason that drove my Ex-girlfriend away, I mean honestly, if my own girlfriend that is like that, I know I can't stand it either.
This negativity is powerful as well. It could make something that's really simple turn into something that could lead to a fight in a relationship.
What makes me want to change then?
I don't want to be SO pathetic in life anymore. Besides, having a positive attitude really makes my world a LOT better. It opened up SO many things to me. Somehow, I really felt happier without having negativity surrounding all around me. The feeling is magical.
"This is a story about a man."
Once, there's this guy on the verge of bankruptcy due to some business failure. He was really depress & the world was turned against him. He was out, walking alone on the streets, thinking of taking a loan from the bank for his business but he's not confident about making his business back to glory & it could lead him to total bankruptcy. He was walking around the streets without shoes. Then, he walked past this man without legs. The man without legs, looked at him, smiled & said, "Have a good day." Afterwards, the guy thought. "This man, even though he lives on the streets without a pair of leg, still could be so positive in life. I'm just a guy, without his shoes. Why am I so depress for?" Immediately, he made his way to the bank & made a loan. Today, he's one of the top richest man in the world.
There are LOTS of people having a much more worse life than you, & yet they could still think positively in life. What do you have to complain?
Now, let me ask you. Would you like rather bask yourself in your own demise, or would you rather think positively in life?
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